Hello Blog readers!
I have to admit. I was wrong. I was very wrong. Last time I
wrote, I confessed to grown-uphood. I thought after moving, setting up my
classroom and all of that, it was official. And it was… until Friday night,
when things got even more official. I’m engaged! That’s about as grown up as I
can imagine being. One week ago, I worked at the park, lived at home, had a
boyfriend and aspiring plans. And 7 days later, bam. I live in an apartment
with my Roomie, it is (finally) furnished, my classroom is practically ready to
go for the year, and a have a beautiful glittery rock on my finger thanks to my
Fiancé. Boyfriend gets a new nick
name! And in about a year, I will get a new last name… WOOO!
Alright, so since I know (well I’m assuming) you’re all
dying to know…here’s “the story.”
First let’s rewind.. “back to yesteryear” (parent trap
reference anyone!?) yesteryear as in June. One day Boyfriend and I were out
shopping all day. On our way home I made some smart comment like, “geesh, I’m
surprised you didn’t drag me to a jewelry store while we were out today.” He
shut me up real fast by pulling up to a store. Dang it. (For those of you who
know me, it’s not always easy to shut me up.) So we went in and Boyfriend
looked around while I talked to the sales clerk because I was too stinking
nervous to even look at rings. However, I couldn’t stall forever and we ended
up looking at a very shiny, beautiful case of rings. There was one in
particular that caught my eye. To my delight, Boyfriend pointed to that exact
ring and asked if I liked it…. Uhhhm. YES! Anyway, that was the end of ring
shopping.
Fast-forward to a couple of weeks ago. Boyfriend and I spent
the day together and were heading out to pick up some dinner when I jokingly
said something like, “I bet that really makes you wanna marry me, huh?” And he
said, “Maybe I do. Maybe I already bought you a ring.” WAIT, WHAT? I think my
jaw dropped. I laughed and said, “yeah right. You can’t be serious.” To which
he replied, “maybe I did, maybe I didn’t.” Smooth moves huh? ;) So I was left
to wonder… is he serious? I wasn’t sure, but I had a pretty good feeling he was
serious. Partially because he is an awful liar and I didn’t think he was lying.
And partially because he (later that night) said, “yeah, just don’t look
through my room because if you find something it’s your own fault.” Yeah, okay
got it.
So as the weeks went on, I had some fun playing with this
whole “maybe I have a ring” thing. I asked him who knew about it, what color it
was, what it looked like etc... To which his answers were Travis (the sales
clerk), silver not gold, and sparkly. It was kind of a fun game for me because
I had no way of knowing whether or not he was serious! At one point he also
told me that he hadn’t asked my parents for permission yet (which was REALLY
important to me). So I was sure I had some more time to play around with this
whole engagement idea.
Fast-forward again to Friday. Boyfriend was in our hometown working
with is family during the day while I was at a teacher lady conference. I went
to his apartment later that night and asked how his day was. After telling me about
working at home, he said “I talked to your parents today.” So I causally asked,
“how was that?” To which he said,
“No… I talked to your parents today.”
Oh. Okay. Apparently my dad was excited to have a son and my mom cried
(typical). Boyfriend also said, “I told them I really didn’t have a date to ask
you planned… but I just really want to show you. I wanna ask you. Do you want
to get engaged tonight?”
Whoa. After a little more talking and only a slight amount
of nervous panicking, he got down on one knee and asked me right there in his
apartment. It was just the two of us, and it was perfect :) Annnnd it was the
same ring that we had looked at together in June. Here’s a picture!
Our last picture as "boyfriend and girlfriend" :)
Right after he proposed! Well, soon after lol. I'm so glad I took this one!
So there’s the story in all it’s semi-romantic glory!
Boyfriend has become Fiancé and we are having the best time telling all our
family and friends. I have never felt and loved and blessed as I have in this
past week!
We are very happy. I am getting used to wearing this
beautiful ring. It’s sparkly just like he promised and I am constantly staring
at it (very hazardous while driving). I would LOVE to show it off to you
readers and will gladly recount “the story” in all it’s vivid details ;)
That’s all the blogging I have time for now, but watch out
for updates next week on the status of my classroom! It’s almost time! Kids
start on the 19th!!
Wait, before I forget... Grandma, this one is for you! Apartment pics!
aaaaaand I can't manage to get pictures of the kitchen or living room uploaded right now, but you will all just have to trust me that they are fantastic.
Okay, after an incredibly long first day of staff meetings it is finally off to sleeps for me!
Until next time...
Peace, love, and a shiny new life,
Jayna
Okay, after an incredibly long first day of staff meetings it is finally off to sleeps for me!
Until next time...
Peace, love, and a shiny new life,
Jayna